Relationship Red Flags Highlighted in Netflix’s “Love is Blind”

I am very late to the game about Netflix’s show, “Love is Blind”. via GIPHY I can honestly say I loved the show but not for obvious reasons. My love for the show derived from the plethora of scenarios most people are faced with a new relationship. On top of meeting their “soulmate”, they were […]

Are Women Looking for Wealthy Mates Gold Diggers?

A wish list is always beneficial when searching for the right mate. Some people want intelligence, some want good looks, some look for security and others look for financial stability. More than often women looking for financial stability in a mate are labeled as “Gold Diggers” but what exactly is the hangup for women holding […]

Chris Rock’s Recipe for a Solid Marriage

I was watching the Netflix Chris Rock special, Tamborine, and haphazardly learned some solid marriage advice. The words he was speaking seemed like common sense but maybe it is not so common if marriages are getting a divorce based on lack of sex, commitment and communication. For starters, Chris Rock is my favorite comedian. Not […]

Effective Ways for Loosening Soul Ties

When I was dating I wish I was more like Lizzo. It would’ve been great to look myself in the mirror and say “Girl, You the one!” via GIPHY What an awesome word of thought it’d been to learn to be my own boo before becoming someone else’s. Some of you may be wondering why […]

I Can’t Walk Away

I was watching the Netflix series “You” and it made me think about all the energy I put into people that were blatantly not good for me. I will not spoil the series for you but it’s about a guy obsessed with a woman that has literally in his mind brought the worse out of […]

I Love Her More

By: Anonymous Baby Momma Drama! Yup, that’s me! The 8 year on and off relationship ended when he decided to go off with another girl. The truth was, I wasn’t capable of loving him anymore after he had left us for drugs, no matter how much he changed, and I just couldn’t. Yeah, maybe I […]

Modern Proverb 31 Wife

Disclaimer: This is my personal interpretation of Proverb 31.  I am in no way condemning others perspectives in fact I encourage you to comment below for conversation. I have often heard about the Proverb 31 wife but never really dug into the subject much because I felt I already had the gist of it. Lately […]

Road to Self Love

It all started with an idea…the idea of love. The romanticism of falling in love then being in love then dying in love is all she thought of. This idea was birthed since Ken and Barbie’s big day. The day they joined hands in holy matrimony was the day she wished that for herself. She […]

Love me like you used to…

Most love stories begin the same… Two random people meet at a random time at a random place make a connection and love knocks them out. via GIPHY At the start of the relationship everything is exciting and new. You can’t get enough of each other. You learn all the details about each other. You […]

Love After Love

By Sandra McCoy Being a 3 time divorcee, life after marriage differed but carried the same feelings.  Each time was worse than the time before because I stacked each marital relationship into the next. It wasn’t until my third divorce that I realized I never allowed myself time to heal from the prior marriages.  I […]